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writes:My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friend's house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew he was lying what should i do? We have been together for 10 months and i do allow him to do what he wants when he wants it, i just sometimes feel that i am neglected in this relationship and with him pulling this off i do not know if it is because he did not want to spend time with me or what but i do not like when people lie to me, what would you do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 February 2010):
If he's lying, then something is wrong. You are right to give him space to go out and have fun, but if he's lying, what's the point. I suggest you really talk to him about it and tell him you feel neglected because of the lies and the time he spends with others. You're supposed to be his priority. But if he's lying, maybe you're not. And maybe there is a better guy out there somewhere.
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reader, popeye78 +, writes (7 February 2010):
Tell him how you feel, tell him that you don't like being lied to and that you respect he needs to do his own thing, just don't lie about it..ask him how he would feel if you lied to him. Remember this..having personal space in a relationship is healthy, lieing is not..
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