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writes:hi. okay so this is kinda an embarrassing thing but im also kinda concerened,i had a bladder infection a while back and the antibiotics the doctor gave me ended up giving me a yeast infection. it is the first one ive ever had so i dont really no much about it. but since then it started to feel better. ive waited about a week and then yesterday me and my boyfriends tried to have sex again and it was like the most painful experience of my life. and then we tried again today cause we thought maybe it would be better but it hurt just as bad. but this time it hurt him too. He took a look at his penis and right before the tip there was some red marks and it almost looked like it had been burned or something. im quite concerned. he said it doesnt hurt unless were trying to do it. i dont no if this is like something that has happened to anyone before but i really need to no what to do cause its quite scary. please reply , ohh and he refuses to go to the doctors with me. should i still go and make sure theres nothing wrong with me or will it go away ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the replys everyone
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 Oh sweetie you and he definately need to go to the doctor. Sex shouldn't hurt and if it does their is definately something wrong. Going to the doctor for something like this is embarrasing but no one ever died of being embarassed. Please show your boyfried this answer.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 My advice for these sorts of questions is always go to the doctor if you have any bad feelings about your health. If you notice something is wrong, consult a doctor. If sex is hurting, and there's a noticeable change in the appearance of any part of your (or his) genitals, you need to go to the doctor and get tested for infection. The problems you and your BF are facing has probably got to do with infection, and if sex is painful for both of you, that is a good indication that something isn't right.
He's being stubborn. Make him go to the doctor, because some infections don't clear up by themselves. Better to be safe than sorry, it *is* for the good of your health and well being, after all.
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reader, puffyfluffy +, writes (7 February 2010):
talk to your mom or call a doctor and tell them everything
my opinion is that your too young to be haveing sex and atleast from this you should learn a lesson.
i dont know what to tell you.
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