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female
age
36-40,
*shkay
writes:He is a relative of mines, yet distant. a few years ago, he contacts me for a favour..something to do with his music. I said I dont have what he wants but then he started talking more and more...until one day he just showed up at my door without my knowledge and that whilst texting me. i dont know why he would surprise anyone in that way but i wasnt home so..then a month later he invites me to his performance at a concert..and when he texted if i was gona make it..i said no...then he texted back...why not!! ill be performing!! a few months later..he texts if any1 has any nice plans for tonight? i dont bother to reply then the next weekend his text is directed at me..."what are you doing today"? i was busy and didnt reply and when i asked him a month later if he needed anything..he texted back...you know, if you were a lawyer..i would be dead by now. i didnt reply i thought that was just too stubborn for a reply. several months passed until he desperatly needed a favour again but i told him i dont have those skills that he wants so that was it. he never approached to even say hi at some reception..although when i was walking towards the exit, i overheard his little brother telling him hey hey that's her..he stared but never said hi...a few months later, he comes to my family's dinner party...he shaked hands and said ohh heyy with a big smile..he never said a word at the dinner table he was sitting in the same row but two other family members were in between...when they got up..i sensed that he looked towards me to say something but didnt..i was having a conversation with others. a month later, he rings me up at night...but i was out of town so never replied back. i havent heard from him since. What do you reckon is happening here?
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (7 February 2010):
 From what you have typed, I think there is nothing happening at all.
He texts you. You ignore him. You see each other, you ignore each other. You don't have the skills that he needs (whatever those might be), so it's pointless that he texts you again.
You have given us virtually no information.
What do YOU think is happening?
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