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writes:Ok, me and my girlfreind broke up over something I did, not cheating or anything to do with girls but a lie about something important to her. I broke her trust badly. She said she wanted space but I was very upset because we had never had this kind of argument before, I had never made her cry or feel this kind of hurt before. I found it hard not to text her and texed quite a lot apologising and trying to explain my actions. This made her even more mad. After two weeks i stopped texting, she then asked me to send her an email explaining things, i sent it and the response back was not good, she said that if i had respected her wishes and not given an onslaught of texts she would have been able to look at the email objectiely and with a clear head, however she did say. She said that by texting so much i have again proved how much i dont respect her. However she wants to keep in contact, she said she would ring me sometime and we could start from somwhere as freinds and see how this goes. I cant believe i didnt give her that space. Do think she might cool off a bit now, if i now give her the space, and let her contact me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontrust me, im not going to text her or try and make contact anymore, I just found it really hard to give space in those two weeks and this really angered her, now though I can give her all the space in the world, because I have calmed down.. I just hope it is not too late.. trust me she meant the world to me, thats why I found it so hard.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 February 2010):
Well you screwed up this one didn't you?
Only time will tell if she will forgive you, but when she does call to meet up then I think you should just try and show her some respect.
Don't beg and keep trying to explain or get forgiveness. Just meet up and be a gentleman. Tell her you want to show her that you do respect her and leave it at that.
She may or may not be able to forgive you for lying. All you an do is give it a try and come clean about anything else you've lied to her about so you can start again with a clean slate.
Good Luck!! xx
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