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writes:I dated someone for about 2yrs and started hearing rumor about him talking to another girl while being with me. I confronted him and denied it so I believed him. Then I heard he was engaged to this girl. I confronted him and of course denied it again and told me to trust him. As it turned out it was true and he could no longer deny it. He said it was just his time to get married and that I wasn't. He was 32, I was 21. He said he didnt love the girl but that he didnt want to be an old father so he couldnt wait for me. I am now 24 and he is now married to her and with a newborn. He called me before the wedding, after the wedding, while his wife was pregnant, and right after the baby was born. I had answered and seen him about 5 months after his wedding yet the first time we got together to hang out "as friends", he tried to make out with me. I stopped him, reminds him he was married now and left. It's been three years now and he still calls, txts, and wants to see me. It's so hard to get over him when he is still in the picture and I've told him to let me go but doesn't. What to do????
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reader, M@i +, writes (9 February 2010):
M@i is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for the help. The reason I agreed to try and remain friends is bc he is a really good friend of my whole family so I once in a while bump into him at family parties. I didn't want us to feel uncomfortable. His wife doesn't know about me. She thinks I'm just another friend. It also seems that he has someone giving him feedback on all I do. If I date someone he finds out and he starts txting me asking me things about him all sarcastically. But u guys will be happy to know that I have deleted any contact I hav of him. I said I needed closure and that's what I will get. And yes, I am super lucky not to be his wife. Thanx again!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 He sounds like a bit of a strange one to me. If it was me I would block his txt's and get caller ID installed on my phone so i didn't have to pick it up when it's him.
By the sounds of it you've had a lucky escape! Imagine being his poor wife!!!
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