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female
age
41-50,
*sgirl4fun
writes:How do I get over my past relationship with my gay lover?He was so kind, yet abusive, yet mysterious...I can't for get him...he left me on the driveway...and tried to get back with a past boy friend that was his lover for years...His boyfriend totally turned away from him...and he is alone fighting HIV virus. He called me and apologized about his past behavior toward me. I love him and I can't stop thinking about him....I remember his Love towards me and his joking moments that keep me in some kind of love sick feeling that I can't get over! I am love sick... and I want to stop thinking that there could be a future with him in some way.
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reader, Nina :)  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 Hi, im Nina. Ahh I see, wow that's hard but if you want to try to forget him or just don't want to love him, you can you are able to just have the will really.( if i make sense )
Try to meet someone else, be with friends. Don't be alone from time to time maybe.
But it's very sweet. Love can be frustrating.
Talk to him but don't be too close. Keep repeating to yourself that he's 'just a friend and your there for him' it will stay in your 'subconscious mind '
I hope i helped. nina. take care.
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