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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Anyone got idea's for a teenage dating site? Im not too young to date and dont tell me to not get involved with guys cuz ive never had a bf and im ready. thxx. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (7 February 2010):
Unfortuantly, for you, I can't recommend any teenage dating sites because I don't know any.
You may feel like your ready for a boyfriend, and the commintments of having a boyfriend however, dating sites probably aren't the answer to this.
You first boyfriend should be real not virtual. Over the internet you have no idea who you're talking to. You will be vunerable to them because all your thinking about is wanting a boyfriend, when they could be thinking something totally different. It's terrifying what's out there.
You're not too young, many people younger than you have had boyfriends, or do have boyfriends, but remember many people older than you have never had a boyfriend either.
I'm 16 and am one of those people.
You just have to be paitent for a guy who does want to be with you. Don't try and force it, otherwise you might miss out on something great.
Some guy will want to be with you and you'll know exactly who you're with.
I'm not saying your too young, but you're still quite young and don't need to worry about these things right now. Just be a teenager at the moment and hang out with your friends, love is complicated, I may not have experienced it but I have witnessed it. Don't go into it unprepared.
Hope this helps,
Good Luck x
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male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 February 2010):
The internet isn't a safe place to meet guys at your age. You don't want to end up in the arms of a paedophile. If you want a boyfriend then meet guys your age at school. But the internet just isn't safe enough for a young person.
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reader, problemmaganet +, writes (7 February 2010):
You shouldn't go on a dating site if you've never had a bf. Try going with guys at school first. Internet safety and all.
I'm not saying that you're too young, but for this age, I believe you should start by being friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): Well I really don't suggest a dating site as a first dating experience, it could turn out really creepy... Couldn't you find a boyfriend in a more conventional way, like at school? And if you just don't find anyone interesting enough, waiting won't kill you. I know several 16-year-old girls who've never had a boyfriend, and nothing's wrong with them.
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