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If he doesn't talk to you or call, is he not into you or just shy?

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Question - (7 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

After reading 'He's just not that into you' I was wondering, from a guys point of view, are all guys like this?

For instance,

Is it true that if a guy doesn't like you, he won't call/talk to you....

Or can guys be shy or whatever, like girls can be?

I'm 16, and I want to know if he doesn't talk to you, he just doesn't like you. Or not, like he's shy.

Thanks :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2010):

Some guys can be very shy. I was. But you can be sure that even the guy who is most shy will look in your direction if he's interested.

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A male reader, manontherun Canada +, writes (7 February 2010):

hmmm an answer ,well ask yourself , is there a friendship between you two ? does he have a reason to come talk to you ?

try that approach give him some reason to force him to talk to you ,and if he comes ,you ask him out .

if he doesn't come he doesn't like you , if he does come , then ask him out because he does like you but is too shy to ask .

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010):

Yes, guys can totally be shy. They will tend to look your way if they like you though. But probably not in 100% of cases.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010):

Well to be honest, for me, i do always talk to a girl that i really like. I do talk to other people, just not as much.

And yes, if i don't like someone i wont talk to them, boys are generally pretty straight up and make it pretty obvious that they like you.

Sorry, that probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but please dont go chasing after someone that plainly isn't interested.

Anyway, hope i've helped :)

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