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writes:I was going to make a fake-facebook to look at my ex-boyfriends page.Ok, i dont want people telling me to just get over it and that i dont need to look at his stuff.He got a new girlfriend fairly quickly after we broke up (rebound)And since we dont talk i dunno how he feels about me anymore, if their still dating, or any of that my guess is that they most likely are.How am i ever supposed to know how he feels it seems like the only way.However, i know anything i see about love or that he is having fun or whatever is going to make me feel down and im probably going to take it more serious then it is. He is the type of person to avoid pain and thats y he wont talk to me.What should i do make one or no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2010): did you end up making one? i'm thinking about the same thing... i'm in pretty much your same situation as well. i also really just worry about if he's okay and where he's at. i'm afraid he'll move without telling me and i would want to be able to say goodbye...
anyway i'm afraid if i make one he will figure it out.
if you did make one what did you do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): you probably shouldn't - all it would take is for you to misunderstand a small comment or see a picture on there of another girl which could make you jump to conclusions because you are on there expecting to see stuff you don't like .. etc etc .. the best way is to speak to him direct if you feel you want to and if you can get in touch with him .. don't torture yourself by looking at his life on facebook - i did that once - didn't make a fake page but looked him up (an ex) and saw loads of pics of women on the page .. it tormented me then his cousin told me months later that they were actually just friends of a friend from a college & they were all just adding each other on etc .. but I made up my own stories according to what I saw & it didn't help me so no, try not to do it! if you need to speak to him, try and do it properly, arrange to meet up or something .. good luck! hope this is a little bit of help - you'll probably get much better answers from some of the others later x
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reader, puffyfluffy  +, writes (7 February 2010):
wow... i thout i was the only person to do fake facebooks to see what that guy that im talking to is doing.
i say do it! because you know alot just from doing it.you should even try to put a pic of a hot girl and try flirting with him and see what he does
its worth a shot.goodluck!
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