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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been very happy, i love spending time with him and he always makes me feel better. He is so nice and he is really the only guy who would really understand and put up with me. He is also my first real boyfriend. But recently something has been happening. I used to always miss him and right when i said goodbye to him at night i would miss him and i hated every day i didn't see him. Now it feels like im ok with not seeing him and i don't really miss him. i was so happy and now i only feel sad and i want it to be ok again! I still like to hold him, but i don't feel the same. I have told him but it feels like he doesn't take it seriously at all... so now i don't know where to go, i was so happy and he was perfect, i just want to know how to get things back to where they were before.Why don't I feel the same love and desire for my boyfriend, and how do I get back to where it was before? Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 This is completely normal. If that buring lust have to be with each other constantly feeling carried on forever you would die of exhaustion. Relationships get to the stage where you feel completely comfortable around each other. If you are still happy to see him and be around him and enjoy his company and have great sex then you have a great relationship.
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