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*iany2009
writes:Sooo a lot has happend in the last year, in fact a lot has happend in last 6 months to be honest, so here goes - last september my boyfriend of 6 months decided to end it with me, we had been through a lot miscarriage, lies and whole lot of rubbish, we rushed things and it really came back to bite us. Soo he ended and it and as he is in the army he was re posted to germany, well i spoke to him every day while we were apart and it was clear we still loved each other and one day he asked me to get back with him so I did, well it was 6 more weeks after that until i saw him as he was then sent to kenya on exercise.In these 6 weeks i found it soo hard and wasnt sure taking him back was a good idea. When he finally came back we spent a week together and it was lovely, we then spent a whole together at xmas, and that again was lovely now ive found out im pregnant again and he is really happy, he has completly changed, he used to lie and cheat all the time and make me feel like crap, now he's the most amazing bf ever, i culdnt ask for a better one, I'm just scared he will change back into the horrible man he was before :( Do you think people can really change? Can we really forget the past and move on??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): i know i thought was nice he forgot about me and when i emailed him he was very nasty and threading towards so he changed for the worse and not at all nice.very aggressive all i was asking how he keeping and he didn,t care how i was keeping just nasty person with over size ego
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reader, siany2009 +, writes (7 February 2010):
siany2009 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 February 2010):
Sometimes people can change. It's rare, but they can. This is interesting because normally a man suddenly changes for the worst, where as your had changed for the better. I think you can afford to stay with him and trust him, working out problems as they come along. Good luck.
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