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anonymous
writes:I have a question regarding my virginity. I am not really sure if I am still a virgin or not. My boyfriend and I tried to have sex but he couldn't get his whole penis inside, only a bit went it and it hurt me. He slowly tried to put it more inside but because of my discomfort he didn't push it in. However, he was slowly penetrating it and was able to cum; when he took it out the condom was filled. I didn't bleed at all, I don't know if my hymen is still intact or has it broken a bit or what? I don't use tampons nor do I ride horses. Any help would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): you are absolutely still a virgin. sometimes girls have elastic labias so they move with the penis. then blood of the layers that seals ur virginity stayes there.
keep on having sex and dont let silly thing worry you.
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reader, Mac2012  +, writes (21 November 2009):
Hey, I think you are not virgin bcoz after vaginal penetrationyou can't be a virgin it doesn't matter how his penis far in.
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reader, ShadowGoddess231  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 Not a virgin! You did the act and there you go!
Virgin means: a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
You my dear even with a little dicky action like that, are not a virgin anymore. He didn't pop your "cherry" he had intercourse with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Not a virgin, you had what they call sexual intercourse, no matter the quaity, the deed is done.
Please get yourself on the birth control pill to avoid pregnancy, more effective than condoms. Look into getting the vaccination for the HPV virus that causes cervical cancer in women who start having sex at a young age, condoms do not protect you from the virus and your boyfriend probably has it present even under his fingernails. HPV is one of the most common human viruses there are, there are 43 different infectious strains of it.
You do not get it from having sex multiple times, having multiple partners, it can happen having sex once...it is a virus, it doesn't discrimminate.
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reader, Markingbad  +, writes (29 October 2009):
 You are not a virgin even if your hymen is still intact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): i'm not too sure exactly how far in he went, but i could feel it and is it possible that he was able to cum even though only a little bit went inside. Is there a way I can check if my hymen is broken or not?
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reader, openmind +, writes (29 October 2009):
It depends my dear on your defination of virginity and sex in my opinion penis in further than fingers can go inside and an orgasm on your part so yea you can still consider your self a virgin how far inside you did he go?
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