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writes: My question is for the column: How do know if your guy ejaculated inside you?I recently had sex with my guy and we finished and he said "I came." I wasn't sure if he was telling the truth or not. 1 because I didn't feel it. 2 I didn't feel anything come out. So is there any way to know if he did or not or should I take his word for it?Thanks for your time whom ever may answer!
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reader, mutherh +, writes (1 November 2009):
It's possible for a man to climax without ejaculating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): From experience with previous partners that when a guy does ejaculate inside theres usually a distinct smell which comes with it plus the other sign that it does escape from the vagina obviously depending how much was released. The smell should kind of give it away though.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 October 2009):
Some girls claim to actually sense the warmth of an ejaculation, which is at least at body temperature. But above all, the evidence should be obvious, because much of it flows or dribbles out following sexual relations. Consider "Uncle Phil's" advice if in question, or simply sit on a toilet (loo in England) and squeeze.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo we did not use a condom. We have had sex many times & he would out right tell me he didn't finish, but this time he told me he did. He has no reason to lie to me. So should I just take his word? & I mean I wasn't even thinking about it so would I still feel it if he did finish? I mean he seemed certain he did cum.
Thanks again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): that's obvious satin - they want to become parents!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): if he did then it would be a bit messy. if he used a condom it would be visible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Stand up, legs slightly apart. Bend at the waist and put your hands on your knees, head level with your groin. Observe. If you drip, he came.
If you're still unsure, grip his penis at the base between forefinger and thumb, squeeze gently and draw said finger and thumb towards the end. Observe closely. If you see a drip, he came.
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reader, Sammycake +, writes (29 October 2009):
Have you learned his 'finished' expression/gestures yet? If so, and if they seem a bit off, there's a chance that he was lying to you.
Were you using a condom? If so, there's no real way to tell, I'm afraid, unless you're wanting to root around in the bin, which I'm guessing you're not. If you didn't use a condom, (using other protection, of course) then next time you go to the loo, his semen will make an appearance and you'll know he did, ha.
That's about as much help as I can give at the mo', good luck!
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reader, menni +, writes (29 October 2009):
did u use a condom?
because if so there will be cum in the condom, which u could have seen with ur own eyes
IF not it would have been messy, trust me
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