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writes:Hey everyone.Well school started not that long ago (2 months or so). So she sits two seats away and her friend sits in the middle between us. So I say hi here and there. I ask her how she is. I am always nice. And not to long ago maybe last week she was like your so sweet. Then she said "I probably shouldn't be saying this but your cute and if I didn't have a bf I would talk to you". I am always nice. I always complement her. And she gives me a note in class yesterday. Out of nowhere. Yeah it just said "how was your weekend" but I think it meant something. Guys start the majority of notes I think at least. So what should I do? By the way not sure if this matters much but i'm 15 and shes 15 but shes a junior and i'm a sophomore. Should I try to wait till they brake up? They have been going out for at least 5 months now. Should I try to chill will her and make a move? HELP? lol... Reply to this Question
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reader, Nic390 +, writes (30 October 2009):
Nic390 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks everyone for the help. I was just wondering what you meant by don't openly flirt? Chocolatepieify? She has told me about how her and her Bf fight about little things but I don't know. I will just sit back and get to know her and see where it leads. By the way I gave her my number the other day and she calls later that night and we talk for a little bit about her and I gave her some advise and I guess it was good because she was like "your so easy to talk to and you listen and actuality give good advise back". So far I like her and we have a few things in common. Wish me luck everyone. Thanks for everything
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reader, Nic390 +, writes (30 October 2009):
Nic390 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for the help. I was just wondering what you meant by don't openly flirt? Chocolatepieify? She has told me about how her and her Bf fight about little things but I don't know. I will just sit back and get to know her and see where it leads. By the way I gave her my number the other day and she calls later that night and we talk for a little bit about her and I gave her some advise and I guess it was good because she was like "your so easy to talk to and you listen and actuality give good advise back". So far I like her and we have a few things in common. Wish me luck everyone. Thanks for everything
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reader, xoblondie1 +, writes (29 October 2009):
 I dont think you should wait because she obviously is putting herself out there that she likes you. Shes the one thats trying to talk to you and she wants you. Things arent probably working out with her boyfriend which is why she is trying to figure you out, so i say go for it!
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reader, Chocolatepieify  +, writes (29 October 2009):
No I do think you should wait until they break up - but don't make them break up, that only causes a lot of problems. If she really really likes you, she will come to you, don't take the risk that she's ''playing'' you. And she's got a boyfriend, I think it's wrong if she does anything that 'means' something towards you, while she's got a boyfriend. I say: be patient, don't openly flirt with her (other girls won't like that either) ;).
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reader, Sammycake  +, writes (29 October 2009):
 I don't think you should wait until they break up.
I think that you should talk to her, have a proper conversation with her and find out what she's really like and whether or not you think you're compatible. You never know, you may have just built her up so much in your mind that she's not the person you imagine her to be.
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