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Am I too needy?

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Question - (29 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 October 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

simple: am i too needy of attention?

i tend to get rejected from my boyfriend all the time to me it seems as if he'd rather go to a billiards than to just hang out with me.... i SWEAR he goes at least 4 times a week!

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (29 October 2009):

Lola1 agony auntYou may want to invest in your own hobbies. My boyfriend and I share hobbies and we have separate ones. We would both be bored if all we did was "stay home and hang out".

Everyone should have their own set of friends. It is good to miss your partner every now and then, and vice versa. The other activities you engage in will give you both more to talk about when together.

It is also a good idea for you to not always be available when he is. Let him miss you sometimes.

Good luck.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (29 October 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhy not go with him when he goes to play?

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