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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and i agreed to just be friends - we talk to each other a lot, but whatever i say he always argues about it, even if it's just my own opinion, and i dont know why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): OBviously he is bitter about you breaking up.
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (29 October 2009):
He may have some resentment about the break up or maybe he is tense in his life right now. Who knows?
You have a right to express your opinion, and he has a right to dispute it, or state an alternate outlook. Perhaps he thinks that when you are giving your opinion, you are opening up a debate. We won't know what is going on in his head.
I recommend that you avoid stating your opinion in front of him for a while. You can avoid arguments when you do not open yourself up to them.
Good luck.
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