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writes:I told the guy I am dating that I will go to a party and asked him if he could help me by giving me his opinion about the hairstyle. He acccepted. I thought he will ask me something about the party, but he did not. The only thing he knows that I will go to a party. Why didn't he ask something about the party? is he jealous?I know he will have a party with his friends. He didn't tell me that he will have a party. I knew it by accident from his friend. Why didn't he invite me? I do not know his friends yet, because we are still dating.This guy told me that he is interested. I see that he also is shy when he is with me. Last time I got two text messages on my cell phone, he asked me then Is this your boyfriend who is sending you text messages. I said no and Then I showed him the messages. Why is he asking such questions. He knows very well that I am interested in him. Is he jealous?
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (30 October 2009):
He's probably wondering the same as you - why are you telling him you are going to a party and asking about hairstyles but you didn't invite HIM to go with you? He's wondering maybe if you have another boyfriend. Sounds like you are giving him mixed signals and he's backing off because he's confused. Be clear.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 October 2009):
More than anything, you'll find he is utterly confused by now. The unenlightened man doesn't do hints and cryptic remarks. He needs straight forward thinking. You asked him to comment on your hairstyle, not the party. So that's what he did. Clearly you were hoping that he would say something about the party because you really do like him and want him to be interested in what you get upto. I wonder if he thinks that you're not as interested as you actually are, because you're not as close as you could be. I'd suggest talking to him a lot more and spending more time with and letting him understand you a bit more. He'll feel a bit more reassured. Good luck
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