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female
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41-50,
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writes:I have been talking to a guy for 3 months now, but I have been putting way more effort into it than he is. He never comes around my family and always expects me to come see him. All the sudden for the last 4 days I haven't heard from him. I've tryed calling him twice and texting him, he is pretty much ignoring me. I just really want to know what I did wrong? We never argue and I'm pretty laid back but I don't know how this sudden change happened?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): I agree with them..speaking from experiance you are just making yourself look needy...move on and if he does call or text back think twice about texting him back and when he calls play it off..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): The only thing I think you have been doing wrong is in your words putting way more effort into it than he is.
A good axiom for dating is "never pursue a man more than he is pursuing you." Especially in the early stages of dating. Seeing someone a couple of times a week for three months does not make you his girlfriend and many guys are turned off when a woman starts taking on the role of a girlfriend and calling and texting and pursuing when he hasn't asked her to.
I do not think 4 days is a long time not to hear from some guy that you are in a casual dating relationship with.
You either need to relax and take your focus off of this ONE guy and date some other fellas, or forget about him and tell him to stop calling you.
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