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Do girls draw a line between "it doesn't matter" and "too small" for a guy's size?

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Question - (29 October 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Girls, would you think that there's a line that separates when a guy's penis size "doesn't matter" and when it's "too small"?

Some girls have told me that it doesn't matter to her, and some just flat out told me it's never gonna work. (mine measures about 4 inches both ways...)

When they say it doesn't matter, is it the truth or is it just out of feeling sorry?

Would you consider ending a relationship because your guy's thing isn't so big?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

hey mate, good question, but there is something far more important than just your penis size. While it does matter a little bit, something far more important is whether or not she is ATTRACTED to you.

Do you get what I'm saying. Having a big one is great, but having a small one is not a problem. The main thing is to make sure that she is attracted to you, that way your size will matter less and less. It's really only a big thing in your head.

This,http://www.real-dating-tips.com/tips-for-attracting-women.html has some great tips on what to do to make her attracted to you.

It's funny because sometimes I have problems down there and it used to get to me in the past. but now i don't care anymore, i just focus on getting her attracted to me.

hope this helps

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A female reader, PixiePie United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2009):

PixiePie agony auntas long as you can use other parts of your body to satisfy her its fine.

yes there is a line that is too small, but if your skilled in other ways she shouldn't mind.

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2009):

Emaz help agony auntI went to an Ann Summers party yesterday and learnt that the girls 'G spot' (not the clit) is 2inches inside the vagina so hearing this i would think that as long as a boy was 2inches then it wouldn't matter right? No, bigger can be better depending on how they use it, i believe that you'd have to work harder if you were smaller. If the girl cares about you then she wont mind :)

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A female reader, gilgirl20 United States +, writes (29 October 2009):

It's all about how you work it! If a girl tells you that you are too small then that's probably her way of saying that she just wasn't that into it...but you should always be comfortable about your size. And by the way, that is an average size.

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A female reader, nomad101 United States +, writes (29 October 2009):

I strongly and truly believe its all in how ya work...we women know what we like and how we like it...and it aint about the size!!!! You need not to worry about that, it could ruin relationships for you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009):

Dude, your thing is going to continue to grow with you until you fully mature, usually around the age of 23.

What makes a girl want to end things is a guy who is insecure about his penis size.

It really is about learning what feels good to your partner and doing that, and you are of average size any way.

If a girl is that shallow to care that much about your size, then you don't want to be involved with her, period.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009):

personally it wouldn't matter to me. if i really liked them and was serious about them it shouldn't be about the size (:

Lovee x

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