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*illyxox
writes:Hello, My boyfriend and I will reach our one year anniversary soon .We really love eachother but he lost my trust a while ago. Four months ago or so, we had a break where he was sexually engaged with another girl.. although they did not do anything after the first day,he apologized forever and was just as hurt himself for doing this to meEven though we both were single at that point it did hurt me ... and so ever since when we got bak i havnt eaten him out ( blowjob or anything futher) , he luved me doing it and i was da first girl to give him heads .he often tried askin if i would like to again but never pushed it.. i always refuse it too and now finally that i am regaining trust in him ,i feel unfair for making him suffer. Since he does evrything for me and more sexually n emotionally :)I also think it hurt him that i said no. is that possible? If i refuse to give him heads why is he so hurt?But now he really cherishes me , loves me and we are extreamly happy together and i finally decided to return him da same love i did before ... i was planning a really sexy and romantic evening! just to show him i forgave him and want to forget the past. soo any tips? on how to show him i moved on from da past and now i want to give him my all once again (=tell me how to make it sweet n romantic so he really apreciates me doing what i have in mind .. and also i was planning to finally give him heads for the first time in 4 months or more .. like a gift of some sort : ) would that work ?Please huurry up ! i really need help hes cuming over tomorrow and i want to surprise him!
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (29 October 2009):
 I recommend you give him the blow job. If you light candles, sing songs and prepare a mating dance (or other fancy things to make it "sweet and romantic") it will all pale in comparison to the blow job.
Leave it simple. It is a powerful statement of its own and it doesn't need "dressing up".
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