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writes: I've been dating this girl in college for about a month now and I've been spending a lot of time with her since we both are in the same program. We've already kissed and stuff and we are very comfortable with each other. My question is when I introduce her to my friends or other people, I don't know if I should introduce her as my girlfriend or what? Or should I ask her? I don't know if she is waiting for me to say it first.I met a girl in highschool when she was a sofomore and I was a freshman.Didn't talk much but we knew each other's names at least lolThen when I was a junior and she was a senior, we actually had a conversation that wasn't just nothing but greetings. Nothing serious, but for her birthday I got her a $100 gift certificate for a clothing store.She goes off to college and I'm a senior, just about lose contact with her.After I graduated highschool, I took a year off and went to college the following year.I then spoke with her like a friend Now I remembered her birthday coming up so I talked to her. I never celebrated her birthday since junior year in highschool. I asked if she was going to be home on because I wanted to drop off a present for her. She replies to me, "yeah I'll be home. Maybe we can do something " I tell her sounds like fun then haven't spoken to her till the day comes. 1pm she signs on and tells me to come by at 2pm. I have my dad drive me there, I don't have a license yet(yeah I know it's really sad, but I'm getting it in feb.) I arrive at her house and say my dad will drive us around. She says "we can take my car, we wouldn't want to trouble your dad." So she drives us to the theatres. We go into a almost packed room for, sat in the front row because there wasn't any seats left. We both look up at the screen by tilting our heads, and about 30 mins into the movie I see her looking down below the screen and to the sides. I've never really been on a date or a expert on reading body language, but I saw this and asked her if she wanted to leave. She says yeah maybe we can sneak into another movie so we went to another.After the movie she drove us to the mall and I just watched her try on coats for 2 hours. Asks me "How do I look?" I reply "I can't really give a opinion, you look good in everything" She says "I'm glad you think I look good in everything but how do I look?" So I say stuff like: cute, I liked the red on better, looks like your in the police force, it's not you as she tries on each coat.She drives me home and tells me she hopes to see me soon.I'm going to see her again in a week. I am buying her a pedicure.I don't know where this is going, I didn't send her any signals, try to kiss her, or even give her a hug last time. Basically she is too good for me, but I love her.I've had a crush on her since highschool and it never went away like it does with girls in the past. I don't know how she feels about me, I don't think what we did on last time was even a date or maybe it was and I just didn't know. She could've wanted to just meet a old friend from highschool and I didn't make any moves because I don't want to push her away. What to do? women like ?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 October 2009):
The worst possible thing to say is that you're not good enough, because you obviously are since she sees you a lot and clearly likes being with you. I would suggest talking to her, because she may be waiting for you to ask her about where this is going. If you really do like her, forget about not being too good, sit her down and tell her you really fancy her and would love to take this relationship further. I would be a shame if you didn't and she really did fancy you (which it sounds like she really does). Sit her down, tell her how you feel and ask if she'd really like to take the relationship further. Good luck.
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reader, tshxs +, writes (29 October 2009):
well it's pretty obvious that you have feelings for her so maybe you should tell her how you feel and how much you do like her. the only way to find out if she feels the same is to open up about your feelings, and if she feels the same then i'd introduce her to your friends and maybe even family. Good Luck!
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