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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him to bits but my first love is now back in my life and I'm falling in love with him all over again and we have started sleeping together. My head is so missed up I don't know what to do. I need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, X-x-Galaxy-x-X +, writes (30 October 2009):
 there must be alot more than you just having your first love comming back into your life you have to think about the reasons why you two had split up and the reasons why you have gone back with him sleeping behind you 3 year lovers back. things like this do happen all the time but now you have to reflect on what you have started and how you will have to end it. you can only be with one person think through clearly. my tip is think with you heart and your mind because if there was a reason of you and your ex of breaking up then that will most likly pop back up again and you also have to think to yourself who really ad truely loves you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 October 2009):
Let's face it, you never got over your first love, and now that he's back and you're already sleeping together, the relationship with your boyfriend won't work. If you really did love him enough, there would be no way ever that you would have cheated on him. The fact that you have proves taht he just isn't the guy for you at all, not matter how nice he is, or how much he means to you. Because he doesnt' mean quite enough. It would be unfair to continue this way, so I would really suggest that you end it with your current boyfriend so he can move on and find someone who really will love him and nobody else. Please don't let him end up finding out you've cheated, because he will be even more hurt. He just isn't the guy for you, so you have to be brave and let him go. As for your first love, I would suggest that you slow down and take time getting to now him again. It's been three years and things have changed. He will have changed. So you need to slow down and get to know him all over again. But end it with your current boyfriend. He's not the guy for you, and there will be someome for him elsewhere. Hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): You're going to have to decide which man you love the most. Why did you and your first love not stay together? Are you two really compatible in the way you and your current beau are? It's a tough choice that you will ultimately have to make on your own. No other person can make that choice for you.
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