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writes:My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex wife 2 or 3 times that I know of. He has kids with her and sometimes talks to her 4 to 5 times a day, but not when I'm around. I told him that if he has nothing to hide he would talk to her in front of me. She hates me and has tried everything to split us up and now its to the point where she say she don't want the kids around me. So now he has to stay at her house on weekends while she's at work. He won't stand up for me when it comes to her,it just let's it go because he thinks that if he don't kiss her ass she says that she'll take the him to court and hell never see the kids again. I say she's full of shit cause if he didn't have them on wends she wouldn't have anyone to pawn the kids off on? Besides if a court took a mans kids from him just because he wasn't bending over backwards for the cunt, they shouldn't be a family court anyhow. Right? I just wonder why he cheated, does he love me, her or both? Does he like the attention? Or is the dumb ass really afraid shell take him to court?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): How long has your BF been divorced? Not to sound harsh, but I think you may be his rebound relationship. Even though his marriage is legally over, he's obviously still not done with his ex and she's not done with him. He's not bending over backwards for her because he's afraid she'll take the kids (not gonna happen), he's doing it because he wants to. You might need to cut him loose and find a man whose life is less complicated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Well, as far as I can see if he has cheated on you 2 or 3 times then you should confront him and make your own decisions whether or not to stay with him. As for the court thing he and you should go get legal advice from a lawyer with this kind of expirience. This might stop his fretting. Also she could be black mailing him. It would be ebst for you two to sit down and talk. If he refuses to do anything that might solve the problem and if you decide to leave him you might want to forewarn him that if things don't change then you will leave him. You have to keep in mind some guys don't get those subtle hints until you tell them in a strait foreward mannor.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (29 October 2009):
 She cannot deny him his rights as a parent to see his children and share custody, unless he abuses or neglects them. Then she will have to have hardcore proof or it'll never stick. If your b/f has a job, pays his bills, doesn't do drugs, doesn't sell drugs, doesn't gamble, drink excessively, or hire prostitutes, she's got nothin' on him. It's just a scare tactic. However the bigger problem is that your b/f may stll be in love with her. Are you prepared to be in the middle of this battle of wills every day? Because she doesn't seem to be backing down, she's on a power trip and she likes the ride.
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