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writes:help!!! there is this girl who has had one boyfriend all her high school career, they have been going at it for over 2 and a halve years, i started talking to her 8 months ago. i have relaized that im and absolutly 100% in love with this girl, and she tells me that she is so sure that she loves me with all her heart, and how we're gunna get married. weve been fucking silently for the 8 months. I'm so sure that the girl loves me and she knows i love her but she dosent end it for me. we feel such passion with each other. what we have is just so special and you can see it. The girl calls me constanly, texts me all day, video chats me, and tells me how were gunna be together and how it gunna happen and it has too, and hoe much she loves me and how hard i make it for her. The thing is its not just we love each other but we're best friends too. She tells me that she needs me. i cant just leave her i have such strong feelings for her, and i just dont know what to do with this please... i need advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Wait, she's fucking you and him at the same time?
Do you realize that EVERYONE who EVER cheats can give you a long explanation about the extenuating circumstances? About how it's not that simple with their situation?
But that's all bullshit at the end of the day. It's still cheating plain and simple. You can't make a ho into a housewife. It's a hard lesson to learn but you're gonna have to learn it eventually.
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reader, Markingbad  +, writes (29 October 2009):
 Why do you think she will happy with just you ? Carry on seeing her if you want to but i wouldnt look for (or want) any commitment from her. Were all different but if your getting the milk for free why buy the cow.
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reader, tshxs +, writes (29 October 2009):
you need to sit down with her and talk to find out if she really does care about you as much as she says she does, ad if she does then you need to tell her that she can't have both of you! also, you say that you are best friends,half of me wants to say that yous really need to get together PROPERLY, but the other half says no way, this is because, i got together with my best friend that i cared about so much and told him everything, and it ended in disaster, because although i cared about him so much and still do, it didn't work in a relationship, because caring for someone as a best friend is completely different to caring for them enough to have a loving, caring relationship with them. do what you feel is best, but hopefully this will have helped. good luck.
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