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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriends ex wife told me that she and my bf had sex since weve been together. When I confronted him about it he said he almost had sex with her one time when she tried to seduce him. He said he stopped himself. However, months later she said that that they had sex several times. Every time he talks to her he allows her to talk badly about me and refuses to defend me. I have never done anything to her. I dont know if I can believe him when he says they havent had sex. They still have a very emotional relationship and they share 2 kids together. He will fight with her on the phone and in person until they calm down and come to an agreement. When I say fight, I mean a knock down drag out argument between the two of them. She calls in the middle of the night because she had a fight with her boyfriend and threatens my boyfriend if he doesnt do this or that. When he and I get into fights he always tries to leave. He gets up says screw this and walks out. I just dont understand how he can say he is through with her and her bs, and yet he fights for her. He doesnt fight with or for me. Should I believe him or her on the cheating thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): I don't know whom you should believe.
Ask yourself one question.
Do you want to spend one more month, one more year, or one lifetime with a man and his ex wife that he will forever be tied to because of the kids if they have this kind of a crappy dysfunctional relationship that bleeds all over the two of your relationship?
Is this man the kind of man you want to have kids with?
Is this man good enough for you in this situation?
Because she isn't going to go away.
It really doesn't matter which one of them is lying because they probably both are.
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