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writes:I am a gay guy that doesn't drink alcohol, but has nothing against it. It tends to be the reason i can't find friends. It also effects my love life. Why is it that all of the friends that I meet eventually just want to have sex with me, then after about 6 months of friendship, drop me? Is there anyone out there that isn't just looking for sex? And is there a way to meet friends without going to a bar? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Yes. They are called priests. No wait, strike that, priests get the most sex. Everyone wants sex until they get too old and the parts don't work anymore.
You need to find a good lesbian friend. This way there is no possibility for sex. Go where lesbians hang out.. Try gymnasiums, bike rallys, bowling alleys, tennis courts, pool halls, monster truck rallys, testicle festivals.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (29 October 2009):
 hey, why not check out an evening class, take up some hobbies, get to meet some new and interesting people. I'm sure there is lots out there also tailor made for the gay community - that way you won;t meet drinkers who just want sex with you. Also, don;t give it up too quick when yo do meet someone.God luck. Natmarie xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Dude, Its like for girls its hard to find a friend whom you dont want to have sex with. The reason for this is simple, most sexual relationships start with friendship. I think you need to be honest with ur friends and if your not into them but you feel they may be into you then say sometng like, I hope we can be friends but Im not into you in that way, maybe a bit more subtle than that.I hope this helps.Elpigaro
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