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male
age
36-40,
*ndy00
writes: Hey. I just found out that the girl I dated recently has started seeing somebody else. I only dated her for a few months and we split up about three months ago, but for some reason, I feel like this has upset me a little. That seems unusual given I was with her for such a short length of time, and the fact that, as a girlfriend, she wasn't anything special. I don't mean to sound spiteful, but our relationships wasn't very good. But if that was the case, why would I feel this way now?I'm hoping that this won't affect me for very long, because it shouldn't be that much of a big deal. What can I do to forget about it and move on?
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reader, bekaaa +, writes (29 March 2009):
it's a perfectly normal feeling
but trust me it will pass in time
my ex found someone else a week after we split up
and it upset me alot despite me disliking him alot
what you need to do is get yourself out there and forget about her
when you find someone else youll wonder why on earth you were feeling this way
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): good question - i think because your pride is a little dented. I suspect she finished it.
follow the advice here :
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-move-on-after-breaking-up.html
Slightly different - but the action you need to do is the same....
Star.x.
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