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writes:I been talking to this guy for a year. We dated briefly and after we broke up, we stopped talking for about a month. Well in that month he started talking to this other girl and they started dating. Well when me and him started talking again, he never told me he had a girlfriend and we started messing around again. It wasn't till 5 months after we had been messing around that I found out. But I still kept messing with him even after I found out. Now I know that was wrong but I had started to fall in love with him. Now, I realize I am in love with him and he's still with her. He says he loves both of us, and he won't leave her for me, even though I've known him longer and we have a history. But I'm tired of waiting for him, but I know he is the only one I want to be with. I don't know what to do... anyone PLZ HELP ME!!!!
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reader, WhiteKnight  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Leave him. Cut him loose and be thankful, because the fact that he won't *leave* her for you is proof enough that even if you did get together as a couple, it would lack trust and commitment. You know in your heart this will end in tears - yours.At the moment you're in a position of power. Chin up, keep your dignity, and walk away. You deserve better than this. Regardless of what your heart tells you - you know this is true.
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reader, WorldFallsUp +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Sweetie, you are young. If he truly loved either of you, then he wouldn't be doing this. It cheapens you by having you as the other girl, whether his girlfriend knows or not. Its not fair to you or her. Cheating is never answer or an excuse. You are much better than that and deserve a man who will make you is one and only. Leave him.It will hurt like nothing I can describe, but hearts mend. You deserve more. The girl he is with deserves more. Be strong and move on.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (29 March 2009):
 If he wont leave her then you gotta leave him. It's hard I know, but he has told you he wont leave her. So you cant let him have both right? That would be so wrong. The only thing you can do is move on. You never know, he might realize his mistake and come crawling back later. But don't expect it and don't wait for it. Just try and move on.
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