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writes: what are some signs a guy gives if he wants to break up with u? or at least thinking bout it Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): signs are - less sex, less alone time, he spends more time @ work, less presents, more arguments sometimes about nothing. I disagree with the 'just ask him' approach as men don't like being put on the spot. instead try the 'make him remember what he's missing' move out for a week (pretend you're spending time with relatives or friends) flirt innocently with someone else - dress sexy when you're going out with girlfriends. If he doesn't chase you then i'm sorry but he's really not that into you. good luck.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (30 March 2009):
Have a serious talk with him. Ask him what he wants to do and tell him you want the truth. If he can't handle a serious relationship then it's time for you to move on, it'll be hard but you'll have to. But you got to get the truth out of him some how. If he keeps acting more normal and wants a serious relationship then you know he's not going to break up with you. But just have a serious talk with him about it.
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reader, yummyummy123 +, writes (30 March 2009):
yummyummy123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni meant what if im living with him?
Like he kinda seems normal now. He still gives me kisses an holds me an that but he is telling some people that he doesnt no if he wants a serious relationship? if u dont want a serious relationship why would he have wanted a ring or acually move in with me?
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (29 March 2009):
Becoming cold and distant, having little interest in anything that you might be arranging for the future, always texting, not answering his mobile in front of you, staying out after work. The main thing normally is that they are not interested in discussing 'feelings' or your relationship at all and are bored by the whole topic. Also seeing more of so called 'friends'.
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reader, yummyummy123 +, writes (29 March 2009):
yummyummy123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat if ur already living with the guy?
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (29 March 2009):
He'll stop texting/calling as much, try to adviod you, Won't kiss you or hug you as much or at all, won't want to see you as much as usual, depressed around you(Sometimes).
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reader, serenederuiner +, writes (29 March 2009):
if you guys have already kissed then he will probably stop kissing you passionatly or will just stop kissing you. If you havn't kissed then he will probably stop acing nice around you.
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