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writes:I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem I wrote. That's when I found out. 21 other girls have asked me out and I said no to them all. I'm wanted because I have OCD and I love cleaning. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (1 April 2009):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks all.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (1 April 2009):
 I'm sorry to hear that, but kudos to you for having the guts to go ahead and ask her out. It probably doesn't seem so great now, but there are grown men and women who can't muster the courage to put their feelings in the open and ask a person out.
Better luck next time, eh?
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (31 March 2009):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe said no and i kinda ran home crying.
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (30 March 2009):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionId like to thank every one who has helped me. She split up with him and is thinking about going with me. Answer tomorrow
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (30 March 2009):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi all! I asked her out! And shes thinking about it! she dumped the guy at the weekend.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (30 March 2009):
 woow jessica, you're right i totally missed that peace of detail
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (30 March 2009):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was about 2 months before she started going out with him on the anual hike. She is realy smart, and kinda got forced into seeing him.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (30 March 2009):
Ok, here is the red flag that I see that no one else has touched on; she is currently seeing someone! and he is much much older!
First of all, she shouldn't be with a 17yr old is my opinion, but anywho......
Did you two kiss while she was with him? That makes me a little wary of the type of girl she is. I am just completely against cheating, in any form.
If you kissed her before she started seeing this guy, then I think you need to ask yourself why she decided to go out with him instead of you.
I would leave things be if she is seeing someone, I'm pretty sure you don't want to be upsetting a 17yr old guy (assuming he is bigger than you)
When and if she stops seeing him, then just find her alone sometime, maybe in the school hallway, maybe walk her home from school, hell you can even write her a letter (not a note, an actual letter) that tells her you have fancied her for a while and would like to go out with her.
But if she is in a relationship already, then I would be patient and hold off on being the "other guy".
Let us know how it all goes though!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (30 March 2009):
who cares about your friends...if they really are your friends they'll except who ever you're dating.......
From Bigfoot to Megan Foxx, who ever it is they shouldn't hold you back
so you need to ahve a talk with them, and tell them if they're really your friends , they're gonna have to get along with her
best of luck
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (30 March 2009):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the question1 more problem. My friends dont like her to much.
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reader, activeplay +, writes (30 March 2009):
 The only thing worse than failure is regret
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (30 March 2009):
yeah man as soon as you see her, ask her to step out of what she's doing for a sec, and make sure that it's just you two, make sure she can hear you, eye contact and all....tell her how you feel about her and ask her out....and if your nervous, dont be, you've got to be confident, dont worry bud, im pretty sure you'll do great...
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (30 March 2009):
Just get together with her and make sure it's just you two alone. Tell her exactly how you feel and ask her out. Since you've already kissed her, she probably does like you. Just ask her out and yes you'll be nervous but once you get to talking to her, you won't be nervous anymore. I promise you. Just go for it. Good luck.
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (30 March 2009):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut i can never find the right time.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (30 March 2009):
Just go for it, you'll never know unless you try...
you'll do fine since 21 other girls want to be with you, and you've already kissed lois so that's another plus...go for it-gud luck
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