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I'm 13 and my boy friend wants to go to second base

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Question - (29 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a 13 year old girl and my boy friend wants to go to second base. I want to go to second base too however since I'm just starting to develop most of my chest is just bra.

If my boy friend did any touching I'm sure he would be able to tell. I'm not sure what to do?

Any tips on making breasts grow faster naturally or on how I should handle this problem? Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009):

You dont feel comfortable with your body, and if you decide to go 2nd base anyway you're gonna be all nervous and weird.

Wait one more year (your bf is gonna be long gone by then...), you know, if you have good genes in a year you'll be PHISICALLY ready for 2nd base.

Advice coming from a 14 year old... my boyfriend broke up with me because I didn't want to get past the 3rd base. It really looked like he cared about me, but then he just wanted something to brag about this spring break.

Don't rush... boys come and go, and the next one is usually better than the previous one.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009):

Hi.

Look, I'm not going to tell you that based on your age, you shouldn't be doing this because I remember being there.

What I AM going to say is that based on your maturity you have shown us, you are not ready to do this.

You would rather change your body to make him happy and keep him around than see that you're beautiful the way you are. If he doesn't realize that you're perfect, then he can leave, and that's exactly what you're scared of.

Guys come and go hon. Make educated decisions. Learn from us older peoples' mistakes and take your time. Your first physical anything should be special.

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A female reader, Neferterie United States +, writes (29 March 2009):

Neferterie agony auntHoney I'm just going to tell you this, and I dont mean to make you mad or anything.

You're now 13, just starting to develop, your boyfriend just wants to feel you up to go and brag to his little friends. If I were you I would say no. Wait a while longer, if your 13 then your in what? 6th or 7th grade? Wait until you get a bit older.

Good luck! And hold out!

P.S. there is no way to make your breasts grow faster, everything comes in time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009):

1 good tip - You're too young to be going to second base with boys.

Your breast will grow when they grow. Your boy is a temple don't let him touch you.

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