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30-35,
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writes: i dont know if im overreacting or taking this too seriously or anything but after and incident last year i've become extremely jealous... weel it's because last year i was with a girl, and our relationship was great, but she ruined it by cheating on me with my really close friend "J" our relationship was so great, it hurt so much to let her go, it even hurt more knowing that my best friend did this to me james apologized and actually cried, that's how close we are,...and i forgave him, but i told him it'll be a long time =before i start trusting him again now im in a relationship with another girl, and when i go out with a girl they have to be able to get along with my friends, and recently her "J" have been getting along great, they even hang out with each other sometimes..... but the thing is i get really jealous and protective, im always questioning her on what they did,...and i don't want to be that type of boyfriend...i dont know if im just being paranoid i dont know if i can trust "J" after what he did, even though i love him as a brother.. what should i do????? thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 March 2009):
I think you know you need to back off on the jealousy. This girl has done nothing wrong so it's unfair to treat her like this.
As for J I think you need to have a word and say you are still trying to forgive him and learn to trust him but you would really appreciate it if he would try and keep his distance from your girlfriend for a while.
Tell her that you trust her but not him and so you just need some reassurance from him.
Good Luck!! xx
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