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writes: Cutting to the chase, me and this guy were casually seeing each other between October till about mid January. After the middle of January things dwindled off. He called me the day before Valentine's, I didn't pick up so he left a voicemail casually asking if we were still talking. A few hours later I responded via text asking just how he was and bla bla bla...anyways, haven't really heard much of him since, until this past Thursday. He texted me saying something like "hi...you know i still have your earrings..." since I left a pair of earrings over at his place a few months back. So is this just an excuse to talk to me again or does he just want to give me my earrings? I know that he moved sometime between me leaving my earrings there and now, so I would think that most men wouldn't really care if they weren't interested, and it's not like they're an expensive pair of earrings or anything.I just responded with a very passive "ohhh yeah, i should probably pick them up some time" and he hasn't responded since. is he waiting for me to call him? was he just really telling me that i left my earrings there? what is his deal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): Thanks, Denny...your thoughts and advice are most certainly appreciated. Anyone else have any other input on this? It would help a lot :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): Hi, I'm the original poster, thanks for the response...I do still really like him that's why I'm curious to know why he would contact me like that. I'm just not sure since he never tested me back. Should I call him or would that seem too needy?
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