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writes:Hey guys. I have a question thats similar to one that was recently posted on here, despite a few differences. That one didn't have many answers so I thought I'd give it a shot :)I've been getting to know this guy for some time, through msn. He is two years older than me. I think he really likes me, but the thing is, after a while, I've decided im not too keen on him, but I do rather like the attention he gives me. He says such cute, albeit cheesy, things to me, and I like it as no one else seems to pay this kind of attention to me. But now he wants to meet up with me, and he hints about asking me out but I don't think I'm ready... Or even if I want to. So what can I say to him, that lets him know, I dont want him to go away, but, I dont want to be in a relationship with him?
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reader, bekaaa  +, writes (29 March 2009):
it sounds to me like you enjoy the flirty fun which is perfectly normal
but if you dont like this guy, your giving him the wrong message
and he has no reason to think you dont like him back so just let him off gently
explain how you dont think your ready for a relationship and you think he is very sweet but would prefer to be friends because he is a very nice boy
good luck
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reader, Neferterie  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 Well then you should have stated that in the orginal message. It seems to me that you've already made up your mind, you want the attention and so you will most likely go through with this, and then whe you get tired of him you'll move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): hey, i posted this question, he isnt gross or old, he is my cousins (ex)mate and i've spoken to him in persn on many occassions before, when we used to bump into eahtoher because of my cousin :)
anymoe answers would be sooo helpful !
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reader, Neferterie +, writes (29 March 2009):
humm....I dont think you can. Have you heard the saying: "You cant have your cake and eat it too?"
Thats pretty much what you want. If I were you I'd end this, it's just going to hurt him, and you could end up getting something you dont like. I'd say to block him, if you haven't met him, for all you know, he could be someone gross and old.
Hope this helps!
Good luck
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