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How do I let him down "gently"?

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Question - (29 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2009)
A female Spain age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i dont know how to begin so im going to try as best i can and hope it comes out right ..

i have a lovely boyfriend who i believe i am in love with.. the problem is, lately iv allowed myself to get close to another guy (through msn and texts), even tho i have no feelings towards him wot so ever, yet now he thinks he's in love with me .. wot do i do?

how can i tell this other guy wot a horrible person i am, leading him on just to say "oh hey i have aboyfriend already but thanks for the compliments!"

i dont want to be with this other guy, yet i dont want to hurt him either, i feel bad enough about how iv led him on already.. so how do i let him down "gently"?

i dont want to tell him i have a boyfriend, as i would like to be friends with him

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (29 March 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt just talk to him, say "look i really like you, but as a friend....i already have a boyfriend(you've gotta tell him the truth), and im really sorry if i led you on or anything but i just want to be friends"

as long as you're not too harsh, he'll understand

good lukc

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