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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really like this guy at college and I can't stop thinking about him. I want to get close to him but I don't know how. I don't see him much and I want to make him jealous.. but how? I'm really confused, could you help please x
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reader, DLover +, writes (29 March 2009):
Starting by making him jealous is ***not a good idea***, guys are very serious about competition and you will not trigger any positive emotions by going on the jealous side (by flirting with other guys in front of him, for exemple) or he will simply ignore you.I suggest you get to know him better and get him to know you better. If you are shy get his MSN and talk with him.Then you could flirt with him. Maybe you could look for seduction tips for women.
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (29 March 2009):
i really wouldnt go down the jealous route it never works and usally hits you back in the face and hurts more people. do the original method of telling him! if you go out of your way to make your feelings clear hes going to believe you are genuine and hes more likely to respond, you choose the 'jealousy' method and he wont even notice you. be open yet honest, dont be too forward too soon, take it slow and start talking to him befroe you actually make the mood. if you feel you get the thumbs up that he likes you too then you know to go for it. General chat and then move into more personal converstaion, keep it cool and dont go too deep. hope it goes ok good luck xxx
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