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writes: I have a friend who is a beautiful woman. I would like our relationship to include sex. I hope she wants the same thing in our relationship. How can I hint at the fact that I would like our relationship to include sex? How can I mention this indirectly? Any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): Through casual conversation with her, you can see what she thinks about friends with benefits but... I tell you this, I have never had sex with somebody that wasn't complicated or the sex swometimes didn't ruin our friendship unless it was a mutual thing, (NSA). You can always find a girl to lay you but how often can you find a girl to be a close friend and what's your friendship worth? Trust me, you'll probably ruin your friendship by having sex with this girl unless it's up front, that it's a no strings attached banging.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): Sex always complicates friendship, and for nearly all women there is no such thing as un-emotional sex. If you value her, or your friendship, you would not try to go there, beacuse the risk of emoitonal complication and hurt is too great. This may sound odd, but you can have sex with anyone - good friendships are hard to find. And if you do value her, why are you just thinking about sex and not a relationship?
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reader, shades of blue  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 It sounds like you want casual sex and not an emotionally connected and committed relationship. It might work, but most women want more.
It reminds me of a Jerry Seinfeld show where he and Elaine decided that wanted to have sex, but then go back to just friends after. Of course it did not work out, but that was TV.
My tip would be to have a conversation about relationships. Dig deep and perhaps you will find your answer without asking.
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