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writes:does he really love me and want to get engaged im only 15 he is 14 he wants to start and family and get married when im 18 and he is 17 what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): I say talk about it all you want but it's doubtful it will happen, teen relationships rarely last. People usually meet their future partners in their 20's after they've had a few relationships like yours. Make sure you use protection so you don't get pregnant. Otherwise, enjoy and live life. I wouldn't even worry about this question, it can't mean much until both of you are adults anyway and he has many years to go and many things he'll want to experience in life before he settles down. Let him buy you a promise ring or something.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 Well I think it's nice he wants to show his commitment to you.
Of course traditionally he must ask your Dad permission to marry you, before he even asks you. I ask my father in law and my gf and I were both in our 20s. How do you think your Dad will take a 15 year old asking to marry his daughter. (he doesn't own a gun does he?) Also your engagement ring traditionally costs 1 month of his wages, so I hope he has a well paid paper round otherwise you will end up with a very tacky engagement ring.
Give it a few years graduate from university and get good jobs, save up lots and lots of money and then when you can afford a nice ring, and the big wedding if you are still together then give it a go.
As for the getting stoned thing, that is definitly what a mature adult who wants a family does! Have you spoken to him when he is not stoned about getting married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): and what do you want to do? what is the life you want? look into the future how do you see yourself at 18, 25 and 35?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat do u think of us wanting to get engaged and married and start a family and us having sex and getting stoned.... im just a little curious..... i know we are to young but still its great i love him with all my heart..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks but we have been together for almost 9 years now never had a fight or anything we love each other deeply and we have be sexual invovled with each other....... but i want to get engaged since we already had sex and everything..... talk about great wow---- its amazing what he can do in his bed.... our parents dont know that he wants to get engaged or that we have already had sex more than 25 times we use protection but we dont want to we want to start a family of our own..... we live an hour apart and i have a nervous disorder cause we can hardly see each other but i see him 3 times every month.... and i stay get to stay alnight with him and every time i do we have sex and get stoned and dicuss what we are going to do with our relationship such as our soon to be family and engagedment...
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (29 March 2009):
Oh wow! That IS way too young. If you feel uncomfortable and think he is moving too fast, tell him that. Have a serious talk with him and tell him that you think you guys should wait to see if you last for a while and then when you're older, maybe things could move faster. Remind him that you do love him and want to be with him but being engaged is too much for you right now.
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