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writes:Hi,I need some help here with a relationship issue.Im 21 and my girlfriend is 18 and we have been together for neary 2 months. we have fell for each other and say the "I Love You" to each other all the time. but because she has college and i have work commitments aswell as she does, its hard for us both to see each other. anyway we have been going really well, taking things at slow pace and enjoying being together, however a week friday just gone, i met my gf at the pub and her best friend Kat who is my cousin was there and sometimes makes it abit awkward for me and my gf to talk and stuff which annoys me because we cant get anywhere without my cousin being there. anyway my gf seem distraced and not herself and as i left and went with my friends and she went out with my cousin i rang her in the heat of the moment and said maybe we should break up and i also sent a text message saying this prior to the phone call and as soon as i said it she didnt say anything and hung up on me..so i left it for a few minutes and rang my cousin up and then asked her if my gf would talk to me and she said she wont at the moment because she is angry about what you said. i tried to apolgise but she wouldnt have any of it, I left for the weekend and tried to call and text my gf but she wouldnt answer any of my texts or calls so then i asked my cousin what she said and she told my cousin she wanted to space and she would contact me when she is ready so i left it. anyway on tuesday my cousin and my other cousin said we were going to the local fair and that they had set up a plan to try and get me and my gf talking again, to which the plan failed and my gf wouldnt even get in the car with me. so i felt confused and was just in the middle of texting my gf and i pouring my heart out and my cousin asked her if she wanted me to go and my gf said no that she doesnt want to break up and will sort things out with me when she is ready and has had time to think. so i felt more happy knowing she wanted me to stay and i said look il give her time i have no probem with that. then today my cousin said i think (my gf) is having a few problems at college or at home not sure which one and she said to my cousin that she needs to think things through and sort that out first before she can focus on sorting out our relationship. now i want to really sort things out with my gf but want in the same respect i dont want her to think im being a pain in pushing her to sort things out with me. so i havent text her this last week.she says she loves me and i love her and she doesnt want me to go what do i do? just wait for her and support her as much as I can?any advice ould be helpfulthanks
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