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writes:hi, hope you can help im 18 and i really like this boy hes 18 too but hes just come out of a two year relationship and says he just wants to be casual at the minute with me , he still has pictures of his ex girlfriend on his phone and facebook they split up 6 months ago i asked him if he was over her and he said yes he is really nice to me always texting and askin me to go out with his mates , i dont know what to do now am i supposed to wait til he wants to go out with me or is he just keeping me there till he gets back with his ex as they were very on and off or would it be because he wants to spend time with his mates thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): The worst thing u can eva do is hang around waiting. It can only hurt & ur putting ur own life on hold. U deserve to know were u stand.
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 Move on, don't be a fool by waiting for a guy. He clearly still hung on his ex - why her picture on his phone, it's not that hard to delete it. Sounds like he's just cool with you, like friends. If he wanted more, he would know.
Just let it go.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 March 2009):
Well he could have anything going through his head. The only person who can tell you his motive is him.
However, this is a very important rule to learn when getting past teenage dating and into adult life:
NEVER hang around hoping for them to make their mind up. It is never worth it to hand all control of your love life over to a boy.
Ask him if he wants to make a go of things, cut ties with his ex, and be with you. If he says anything but yes, then move on. He's wasting your time and it's just not worth it.
Good Luck!! xx
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