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male
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41-50,
*he_phoenic
writes:I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic moves in front of me often, if not always. I don't see her often though she asks about me sometimes and when she catches my attention she knows and shows appreciation and what is driving me crazy is I don't really know... what does she want??I once or twice thought about approaching to find out what is in her mind, but then she showed hesitation, though she didn't show regret or refusal because she continues teasing me and flirting.Please help, I want to know what does she have on her mind?? Sometimes I think she is playing with me or does she wants sex and didn't make her mind yet??Please help me
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reader, Sagarock  +, writes (20 April 2017):
She's testing her attractiveness by making you a guinea pig. Beware the moment you loose your control you are going to be roasted. Be in control make your attention time to her very rare and enjoy these golden moments. Tc
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (31 March 2009):
the_phoenic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to all those who repleid to meyour advice cherished me and helped so farall the best and GOD bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): women like attention & it could be harmless flirting or it could be a seduction routine. frankly both are dangerous. NEVER judge someone's intent only their actions. So what do you want - flirtatious fun or danger. if u value ur wife u'll stop this now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): your SIL is desrespecting/betraying your wife and you will be too if you encourage her or do not put a stop to this. NOW. tell your SIL to get some respect FOR HERSELF. Don't even worry what is going on in her head. As long as your head is screwed on properly and you are not tempted.
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reader, bekaaa +, writes (29 March 2009):
you need to stop it now
confront her and tell her how you feel about it
explain you are in love with her sister and she should be happy for you, not flirting with you
if it goes on much longer it will cause much more trouble
you are not in the wrong and have nothing to hide and nothing to lose
so tell her
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 March 2009):
She could well be jealous that her little sister got engaged first. She is the older one and so all the boys should be after her, not her gawky little sister.
She is probably just trying to boost her self esteem by telling herself that she could have you if she wanted to.
As long as you have an idea of how to stop it then you should be fine.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): No one can tell you what is in her mind! But it sounds like trouble!
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (29 March 2009):
the_phoenic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionemily..
she is not only teasing in that way that mostof women do when seeing a goodlooking man
i know when a woman bend over infront of me for some time
to catch my attention or when she shows her legs in away that appears inncocently in inttend to play with me
but my SIL is different because she INTENDS to deeply turn me on !!
i remember we once were speeking about food and coocking and she told her sister to tell me tha she WOULD DO ME ALL WHAT I DESIRE offcourse they understood her words as if she refers to a dish
but i know what is in her mind
thanks for hte idea i know now how to stop her
but what is realy in her mind please
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): Follow Emily's suggestions! I think she is right on. And if that doesn't work, confront her! Tell her to back off!
A lot of women are turned on by younger men. She could be seriously turned on by you. If that is the case, you need to put a stop to it NOW!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 March 2009):
You are her new younger brother and I think she is probably just teasing you because she can. That is what big sisters do.
If you sit there and don't respond then she is going to know it bothers you and carry on.
If you just laugh and say "what are you doing you nutter?" loudly when she does it then people will have their attention drawn to her and she won't like that.
Good Luck!! xx
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