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anonymous
writes:i would really love a little advice, thankyou.so, i have been friends with this guy for about 8/9 months, having met him when he joined my school. we got on well really quickly, we talk a lot, always have fun, are relaxed around eachother, etc. he always asks me for help at school, sits really close to me, mocks me and competes with me, keeps eye contact a lot, always laughs at me and makes me laugh, i think i catch him looking at me only for him to turn around when i look at him. we have friendly banter all the time but i just asumed that he saw me as a friend.he's a charming and well liked guy but i am still not sure he treats other girls like he does me, but at the same time i think we are just friends. he touches me a lot and has had conversations with me about 'nurses outfits' and 'payback sex', then he asked me to revise with him so we have spent 3 days together and he has picked me up and taken me home each day.however he said he could never date a girl from school again after his last girlfriend from school drove him mad and 'you dont appreciate time with someone when you see them everyday'.i dont know what to believe...are we just friends? more? is he flirting or just like that?sorry for so much writing, comments would be much appreciated, thankyou very much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): thankyou, but i do know him quite well, i just dont know how to read him. and as for the title, that wasnt my choice haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Can't tell, anon. You don't describe him very completely. Some of his "conversation topics" sound a little strange but, I don't know what context they were in. You can keep being friends and studying together...It might help you get to know him better. It does not seem that you do know him very well right now. However, I do not agree with the "familiarity breeds contempt" line. It has been used an an excuse for ages by people who cannot really learn to care for anyone. Take care.
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