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writes:hi i am 13 and at the moment i am going through a tough stage and i cant get over it. well my boyfriend and me just broke up. well it was a bit of my falt, well there was another guy that liked me and treated me better so i thought he mite do me better so i will dump the guy i am with. but then it came to the time and one of my friends did it for me and then when i did it i felt like i made the wrong decision because i still really liked him. i tryed talking to him and so did my friends but every time i do he walks off. and i tried writting a note to him but when he found out it was to do with me he left it. and every time i try and says no. i apolized to him but he still didnt do any think. i really still like him and i cry every day and night because i still really want him back and i try so hard but every think i try dosent seem to work... i really still love him but i dnt no if he feels the same way i just want to be together again he was the only thing that made me smile and kept me happy..and i loved him that much that i sed to the other guy no and now i dont no what to do.. if you have any sugestions on how i can get im back please say i really need him back...please if u have any help??..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): i have been through almost the same thing. If he is too much of a idiot to ignore you, maybe you dont need him. it takes a while to get over them, and when you are he will just come crying back......your too good for him, leave it for a bit. x x
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reader, cheerwhore23  +, writes (6 June 2009):
I'm 14 and pretty much went through the same thing..I thought I couldn't live without him and I cried alot! I tried so hard to get him back..I then realized that I didn't need him..he made me feel so amazing and I thought he was the only one for me..a few months later I realized that I was just trying to hold on to the past..he did come back to me but I realized that that just made it worse! I kept falling for him and it wasn't good for me..you will get over him trust me..its really hard but you still have your while life ahead of you. And in time..he apologized for hurting me and now we're good friends..just give him some space.
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reader, Katy.  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 I'm fifteen and I remember feeling the crappest I've ever felt, and it felt like the end of the world, I hated myself and everything and convinced myself it was something worser than hormones, well a couple of years later I realised it WAS just hormones, little things can seem like the biggest things ever and it wasn't long ago that I felt this way, things are deffinetley better and you move on from boys as much as you think you "love them" or what not. There's bigger things to worry about in life so make the most of what you've got and realise that you can't always get what you want in life. If you're going to finish someone over something else and it doesn't work out, the other guys not going to fall straight back on your lap.
That's life I'm afraid (:
Katy x
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reader, Dark_Storm +, writes (4 June 2009):
 sadly we cant cast spells on men other wise id have johnny depp :)
i think thst the reason that things have become so awkward between u and your man is that he feels a bit over whellmed and pressured by the letters and your friends getting involved.
the best thing for you to go is to back away and give him some time and yourself some room to come to terms with the situation and let things cool off.
after a while..start talking again...treat him like a friend and it might end up working back out again depending how he feels.
right now the situation is still to raw for both of you and he suprisingly may feel just as hurt.
may not be the answer u wanted to hear but just give it time :) x
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