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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i found out my bf went overseas while i was away and he is hidin it from me. thats the 3rd time. others times a girl he went to. Also he have been seein a girl my friend told me she sees him all the time. i dont know wat to do and i dont trust him. i got a 3 yr old with him. he lies about everyting. we cant seat and talk. I wanna leave but i think about my son.help plz Reply to this Question
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Um....you know he is lying, he hides stuff from you, seeing someone else and it is difficult to sit and talk with him.....and you want to leave....do you think you son should grow up in that environment?You have outlined all the things that are wrong here but you still can't see that you are in a bad place....My advice would be to pack your stuff, pack your son's stuff, tell him you are leaving and that you will contact him regarding providing for your son. Go to your parents' house and stay until you are able to get somewhere of your own. I have a funny feeling your mom and dad will be happy that you got out of that situation.You need as you said to think about your son....if he stays in that environment, chances are he will become a product of it and the cycle will continue. Not only will you have a lying bastard for a boyfriend but you will also have a mini version for some other person's daughter to deal with.So do yourself and your son a favour and be in a positive place. Leave him and get some peace of mind.Ana
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 I understand this is your son's father and you would like the relationship for your son's sake but it's not working. Sounds like there is way too much infidelity and he's not hiding it either.
You can still have a good relationship with him, even if are not together. Get your feelings out of this and move on with your life, there are plenty of single mothers out there. Don't let him continue to break your heart, disrespect and make a fool out of you.
good luck
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