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writes:dear cupid:i have a problem, i want my relationship to work.i dont know what else to do' i hate arguing and it seems like we are always arguing about the littlest and stupidest things, and he makes me cry each time.i just dont know what to do. can you please help me?or point me in the right direction where i could get help? Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 well if you guys argue over every little thing.
then maybe this isn't the person for you.
i mean ok in relationships you do argue but over everylittle thing.
something isn't right there and maybe it's time to leave this relationship and find one where you feel happier in it.
i mean i know you want this to work but if you try talking about it i'm guessing you guys will get into an argument am i right?
anyways best of luck hun.
hope this helps :)
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Arguing over tiny little things constantly suggests there is a much bigger problem underneath the surface that isn't being resolved. So what is that problem? What are you guys fighting about?
The first logical direction is to discuss it with your partner, before an argument starts, honestly and calmly start talking about things.
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