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Why do men change after you give them your heart?

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Question - (4 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

why when you give a man your heart he start to act different and don't want anything to do with you after a year into the relationship. then he refuse to answer any of my calls or even come around like he use to. it has been two months and things are not the same.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

Wow you sound like someone I know. How long ago was this relationship? My guess is that a negative trait drove him away in some manner. For example being too possessive or unhappy.

Otherwise we men are hunters by nature. We tend to lose interest when the chase is over. It is time for a new conquest. It is coded in our genes. We have the iurge to find a new woman to conquer and get bored with the same old one. It takes alot of will power to stay with the same woman and make a committment. It takes more will power esp if men are attractive to other women and they are available.

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A female reader, Ms.Helper United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2009):

Ms.Helper agony auntIt sometimes seems that way, but you should just ask him about it rather than worrying yourself. It might be nothing, there might be another reason, you never know!

Tell him how you feel. Maybe back off a bit with the 'giving him your heart' like actions or things you say, just to make him work that little bit harder to get your attention :)

Good luck x

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