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writes:I had a short relationship with my 16-now 17- yr. old cousin. It ended and he started dating another girl. I had a couple other relationships, but in the end, I still really like him. Yesterday i found out my best friend had been talking and texting and iming him and he told her he and his gf had sex! Now that's all I hear about. And it just makes me feel worse. I can't seem to get over him! Not that we could be together now. Not to mention he's 3 yrs. older than me. He's always on my mind. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): i guess u can't really do anything....well u can try to get in another relationship with someone else to get him out of ur head.Why don't u try talking to him about it :) i don't think u can really hook up with him again :( srry but that's wast i think.If u really like him and u think he's worth it, why don't u try flirting around him and make a few moves in front of him that would make him wan't u bad.U could try to go with someone else and just kiss ur pretend boyfriend in front of him :) that would make him regret he ever called it over with u.I hope this helps good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was the age difference. He said when I was older, like 17, we should talk then. I have distracted myself in every possible way but I've been really isolated from my friends due to the fact I was diagnosed with mononucleosis(it's a virus that makes you extremely tired for those that don't know)soon after. Therefore I have lots of free time to sit around and think since I don't have the energy to do anything else. I know that since we're family this is an impossible hope.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually, I'm adopted. From Vietnam. So were not blood related.
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reader, weparley +, writes (4 June 2009):
First off you! You're acting like and speaking like He is a guy you met at the mall, or at a party...
"THIS IS YOUR COUSIN FOR CHRIST SAKE!" HE'S A RELATIVE BY BLOOD. what are you thinking? Much less having these SICK thoughts and feelings for? ...SNAP OUT OF IT!!!!
THAT'S GROSS!!
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