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writes:Should I be concerned if my boyfriend is bitter about his ex-girlfriend? He won't acknowledge her existence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): very strange not to acknowledge the ex- many reason for this:
- he is either still grieveing/hurting about the breakup
- he is indifferent and couldn't care less of her.
- he is truly over her.
- he either doesn't want to acknowledge anything about her because he feels he will upset you.
(or maybe he is justt being a guy, it is OVER, and that is that)
the scary thing is that maybe too many unresloved feeling here and he just wants to pretend to forget. then you two have issues to discuss because you cannot build on falseness or unresolved issues.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 maybe something really bad happened due to her part and he just wants to forget she ever existed and move on with his life.
move forward with you and be his future rather than think about his past.
she's no longer anythin to him now and she obviously did something terrible.
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reader, happytobe +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Thanks so much:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): Maybe they had a really troubled relationship, and he doesn't want to think about what happened. Or a messy break-up, and they parted on negative terms with each other.
Some people feel awkward around their ex partners, and find it easier to just ignore them. I think that as long as he isn't being nasty to her, or seems to hate her very existence or anything, then it is probably nothing to worry about.
At least you don't have to worry about whether he still has feelings for her! x
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (4 June 2009):
 I would be concerned yes. Do you know the story of how they ended?
I think being so bitter that he does not acknowledge she exists suggests he's not over the relationship.
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