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writes:i have recently got together with a guy i really like but there has been problems, he is a football player so he spends most of his time at training, or out with mates i just dont seem to see him as much as i would like to,and people make it harder because he is african and i'm scottish, our family and friends dont want to see us together, how can i make this relationship work?
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reader, squishysammiie  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 well in reality the color of your skin or your race doesnt matter one single bit, as for the people who dont want you to be together it doesnt matter if they dont want you to be together it is you and this guy, not you this guy and all of your friends and family. in just about every relationship you have there is always going to be atleast one person who doesnt want you guys together. but if you truly like this guy it shouldnt matter what other people think i went threw a similar situation but it wasnt the race that mattered it was the people my boyfriend hung out with.so just go with your heart girl and ignore the people who cant accept who you want to be with because in the end its what you think that counts hope this helped in some way
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reader, jalmetha  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Interracial relationships can be difficult. But if a couple realy feels as if they are compadable, they should stick it out.
My concern is that he is more intrested in playing football and hanging with his friends than with you.
When a relationship is new, couples tend to hang out a lot. You say that you recently got together and don't see him much. I think that is your problem, not his color.
Have a talk with him. Let him know that you feel neglected and would like some of his attention. If he does not repsond, you should reconsider the relationship.
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