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Sex in the woods to lose my virginity?

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Question - (4 June 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So me and this guy "Alex" have been talking all school year. We pass notes all the time and we always joked about having sex, especially because at my school, everyone think I get around. The truth is I'm a virgin. Well Alex asked me to go to a lake with him saturday and have sex with him in the woods. I didn't mean to but I said yes. I know that it will be me and him having sex and nothing else. But I really like Alex. All my friends say no. But earlier this year I did something wayy worse. And they said I shouldn't do it. What should I do?

~Confused~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009):

Not a good idea. Ticks and chiggers will eat you up!

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A female reader, Danii-N-Dale United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2009):

Danii-N-Dale agony auntThis is your 1st time and your thinking about doing it in the woods

i think your 1st time should be special and then as you get older then get more adventurous

Really think about this hunny as it can be confusing

Good Luck

and listen to your friends

-Danielle xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009):

No, i mean there won't be anyone to call for help if you decide not to and he tries to force you.

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A female reader, shaniquas3 United States +, writes (5 June 2009):

hno girl have sum respect for urself..shoow sum class!!!dnt do that he only usin u to hit!!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (4 June 2009):

Honeypie agony auntWhy? What is the hurry in loosing your virginity? You think you will be more cool if you screw some "almost" random guy in the woods?

To me that sounds more like someone who is desperate for acceptance. Is he in some clique of popular people you want to be with? Cause I can tell you now that since there is no feeling between the two of you, he's going to drop you like a dead fish once he's "done" you. Then spread the word about you next....

I don't get it. You even know it's a stupid thing to do.

So tell him that you were kidding. Or just be a chicken and not show up. I'm sure he can use his right hand just fine...

*shakes head*

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A female reader, yesgra25 United States +, writes (4 June 2009):

I say dont do it. Your first time should be special...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

Is that really where you want to lose it? In the woods, worried about poison oak or getting stung by a bee, worried about being seen or heard? Sounds like a perfect recipe for a lousy first time. Noticed you didn't use the word 'love' anywhere, either.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

What could possibky be more worse?

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntI wouldn't do it.

This boy doesn't love you, hes using you for sex.

Everyone thinks you get around so he wants to take an advantage.

Virginity is something you can never get back once its broken. Save if for the person you love and are in a loving relationship with not the boy who just wants a quick leg over. If you had any self respect you wouldn't sleep with someone at such a young age for a one off.

Livia

xoxox

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A male reader, Livelife United States +, writes (4 June 2009):

I don't think you should do it just to do it, and I don't think the woods would be a good place anyway. I think you should wait and make sure it's with someone who it would mean something to you to lose it to, but if you still do it, please use protection. If you have any other questions, you can message anyone on here to get more advice. Good luck :).

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